Understanding Anxious-Avoidant Attachment Styles
Attachment styles shape how we connect with others, handle emotional intimacy, and respond to stress in relationships. For many people, these patterns form early in life and quietly influence romantic relationships, friendships, family dynamics, and even how they cope with addiction or mental health challenges. One of the most confusing and emotionally exhausting patterns is […]
Signs of Repressed Childhood Trauma in Adults
Many adults move through life carrying emotional patterns they can’t quite explain. You may feel constantly on edge, struggle in relationships, react strongly to certain situations, or feel disconnected from yourself—without a clear reason why. For many people, these experiences are not personality flaws or personal failures. They are often signs of repressed childhood trauma […]
Signs Your Nervous System is Stuck in Fight or Flight
If you’ve ever felt like you’re running on adrenaline all day, constantly tense, or unable to “turn off,” you’re not alone. Many people live in a prolonged state of stress without realizing that their nervous system is stuck in fight-or-flight mode—a survival response that was designed for short bursts of danger, not everyday life. When […]
Are You Dating Someone With Bipolar? What To Know
Dating someone with bipolar disorder can be a meaningful, supportive, and deeply loving experience—but it can also be confusing, overwhelming, or emotionally challenging if you don’t fully understand the condition. Bipolar disorder involves shifts in mood, energy, and behavior that can affect relationships in unique ways. When you care deeply about a partner who lives […]
Dissociation vs Disassociation: The Differences
If you’ve ever searched for information about dissociation, you’ve probably noticed another word that looks almost identical: disassociation. Many people assume the two terms mean the same thing—or that one is just a misspelled version of the other. But while they look similar, dissociation and disassociation refer to very different concepts, especially in the context […]
Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn: How Your Body Responds to Stress
Have you ever noticed your heart racing when someone raises their voice, or felt yourself wanting to bolt from a tense situation—only to freeze instead? These reactions are part of a deeply rooted survival system. In fact, our bodies have evolved not just the classic “fight or flight” response, but also “freeze” and “fawn” responses […]
Living with a Spouse with Mental Illness
Marriage is often described as a partnership built on love, trust, and resilience. But when one spouse struggles with mental illness, that partnership can face unique challenges that test even the strongest relationships. Whether your partner has been diagnosed with depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, or another condition, living with a spouse with mental illness can […]
Is Self Harm Addictive?
Self-harm is a deeply personal and often misunderstood behavior. For many, it’s not about seeking attention or attempting suicide — it’s about trying to cope with intense emotional pain in a way that feels controllable. But one of the most common questions people ask is, “Is self-harm addictive?” The truth is, while self-harm doesn’t involve […]
What Does It Mean When Someone is Rocking Back and Forth?
You’ve probably seen it before — someone sitting quietly, gently rocking back and forth. At first glance, it might seem like a nervous habit or a way to stay calm, but this simple, rhythmic motion often carries deeper meaning. Rocking back and forth can be a self-soothing behavior — something people naturally do when trying […]
Yoga Therapy for Mental Health
For those struggling with depression, anxiety, PTSD, and other mental health disorders, yoga therapy offers a unique pathway to recovery, one that honors the connection between physical movement, breath, and emotional well-being. At Robles Ranch, we’ve witnessed firsthand how this integrative approach can transform lives, offering hope and healing in an environment designed to nurture […]